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Insomnia – Do You Have It?

June 23, 2015 by admin

Insomnia – Do You Have It?

Insomnia Therapy New Zealand
The most common sleep disorders are sleep-onset insomnia and sleep apnoea

The term insomnia covers a wide variety of sleep issues, each has different causes and each needs different solutions. Insomnia costs New Zealand tens of millions of dollars per year in lost producitivty. The good news is there are steps you can take to improve your sleep.

The first step towards improving your sleep is to work out what type of insomnia you have. The first thing to think about is how long the insomnia has been an issue? And the second, and possibly more important, is to figure out what pattern of sleep problems you have.

Below is a few of the common sleep issues that may be affecting you:

Transient Insomnia

This is insomnia that lasts for a few nights, about a week at most. Most people suffer from this from time to time, particularly when dealing with stressful situations. Transient Insomnia is also common while experiencing a change in time-zone, and is a symptom of jet-lag. Some people also have difficulty adjusting to sleeping in a different place or environment.

For this type of insomnia, often, no treatment is necessary – just the awareness that under some situations having difficulty sleeping for a short amount of time is normal.

Short-term Insomnia

If you have experience insomnia for a few weeks then you may fall into this category. Like those with Transient Insomnia, this type of abnormal sleep may have begun with a stressful life event. Often these disruptions are long-term and have a larger impact on your life, such as death, divorce, unemployment or immigration.

Most people find that as they resolve the issues evoked by the life event their sleep improves as-well. However, in some cases people who identify with Short-term Insomnia develop poor sleep habits and anxiety around their sleep patterns. This can lead to long-term or even Chronic Insomnia.

In terms of treatment, relaxation therapy combined with counselling can help resolve the issues associated with the stressful life event and in turn encourage healthier sleeping patterns. Sleeping tablets, either herbal or medicated may also be of use. However, it is important to speak with a doctor before taking or trying this route, as some medications can interact with sleeping tablets and cause serious harm.

Chronic Insomnia

If your insomnia has lasted for at least three months, then you may be associated with the Chronic Insomnia category. Some people who identify with this group have had is for many years, and often have graduated from short-term insomnia. Often these people have long since resolved the underlying issues that initially caused their unhealthy sleep patterns, but the insomnia has remained. This is why creating health sleep patterns early on can be so important (Bearpark, H, 1994).

Patterns of Insomnia

Insomnia usually has a pattern, recognising that pattern can be very useful to indentify the cause of the problem. Below are a few of the common patterns of insomnia.

Sleep Initiation Insomnia

This is ususally when you have trouble falling asleep, and may be a sign of chronic insomnia. If you have trouble getting to sleep during the night and difficulty waking in the mornings it may be important to speak to a specialist about any other conditions that may be affecting your ability to sleep, such as breathing disorders, restless leg syndrome or delayed sleep phase syndrome.

Sleep Maintainance Insomnia

This is when you have no trouble falling asleep, but often have difficulty remaining asleep, usually waking up often throughout the night. Some common biological causes for this pattern are, sleep apnea and periodic limb movements. However, there are other factors that can influence this pattern, such as alcohol, caffine and nicotine consumption, as well as medication and sleeping tablets.

Environmental factors such as noise, light and temparature can also have a huge influence on your sleep patterns. It is important for you to make sure the environment you sleep in is calm, dark and comfortable so that you have the best opportunity to create healthy sleep patterns.

Early Morning Awakening Insomnia

This is when you have no problem falling asleep or remaining asleep, but that you awaken too early in the morning. This is often associated with shift work or a disturbance with your body clock and often becomes habitual (Bearpark, H, 1994).

Seeking Help

If you feel as though your insomnia is impacting your quality of life and your ability to function, please seek professional help – either contact your GP or another registered health professional.

If you are in Auckland or indeed any part of New Zealand you can talk to the team at Shore Therapy to discuss insomnia or related issues. If you would like to talk more about some techniques to encourage healthy sleep patterns, Click Here to contact us or to make an appointment or booking

Filed Under: Anxiety, Sleep Tagged With: insomnia, sleep, sleep patterns

Pornography Addiction

February 25, 2015 by admin

With access to the internet and cell phone apps in everyday life becoming the norm, it is not surprising that access to pornography andPornography Addiction sexual images has also become easier. Using pornography is not in itself a damaging or unhealthy behaviour, however, it is becoming increasing clear that it does have an addictive quality and recently has been known to impact couples in relationship. Relationships can be adversely affected by the addictive influences of pornography and numerous couples are finding it difficult to create intimacy and often the motivation for sex, and foreplay is severely diminished.

It has been noted that there are a number of factors that can influence the ‘usage’ of pornographic images. It is generally based on stress levels, family circumstances, emotional wellbeing, relationship status, etc.

If you are worried or concerned about your involvement with pornography, Skinner describes seven levels of pornographic usage that might help you identify whether gaining professional support would be beneficial for your well being.

Pornography Addiction Stages

Level  1: using pornography, pornographic images or sexual images once or twice a year.

Level 2: using pornography, pornographic images or sexual images two to six times a year.

Level 3: using pornography, pornographic images or sexual images once a month – though the usage of pornographic content for several days and then stopping (binging) can also occur at this stage.

Level 4 – 6: using pornography, pornographic images or sexual images increasingly with more binges and fewer days between each binge. The appearance of withdrawals are noted between each binge and individuals spend more time fantasising which impacts their lives.

Level 7: using pornography, pornographic images or sexual images for hours on a daily basis and the pornography images become more ‘hard-core’ and violent. The individual’s thoughts are dominated by sex and pornography and often act out their sexual fantasies – sometimes leading to violent crime.

 

Pornography Addiction Help

If you feel that you identify with level 3 or higher please reach out for professional help, as level 3 is noted as bordering problematic/compulsion.

If you would like to speak with anyone about pornography addiction or any other issues please feel free to contact us at Shore Therapy, Auckland Therapy and Counselling. To make a confidential, discrete appointment click here to visit our bookings page.

 

Reference: Tarver, M (2010). The effects of pornography addiction on marital consent.

 

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Filed Under: Addiction, Pornography, Therapy Tagged With: addiction, porn, pornography

Marriage Counselling

February 19, 2015 by admin

Marriage and relationships are not always easy. Sometimes they are just down right hard!Marriage Counselling Experiencing issues with your significant other can severely impact every part of your life, whether it be work, family, social life, home life or even alone time! Often in our busy schedules we find it difficult to find time to work on our relationships, yet these are the people that we turn to in time of need. So therefore, it is essential that we look after our relationships so they are strong, healthy and resilient to all that life can throw at us.

 

How we can help

Shore Therapy can offer you both an allocated time for you and your partner to sit down with a professional and work on your relationship. Your therapist will offer you a calm, neutral and contained space for you both to hash out your issues and work towards a more resilient relationship. Your therapist may offer you insight into your behaviour, emotions and past experiences that may be affecting the health of your relationship.

If you are considering Marriage & Couples Counselling then please contact us for a confidential consult.

Filed Under: Marriage, Therapy

What is Psychotherapy

February 10, 2015 by admin

What is Psychotherapy

The goal of Psychotherapy is to help people gain insight into their distresses, difficulties and issues. It encourages a greater understanding of their motivations, family dynamics and enables the discovery of more appropriate and healthy coping strategies. Psychotherapy often creates a change in a person’s outlook, thinking pattern and behaviour through the safe and structured exploration of feelings, beliefs, thoughts, traumatic events, and personal history.

Depending on the scope of your concern, therapy can be either long or short term. This is often a discussion between yourself and your therapist about which form of therapy best suits you. Sessions are provided for adults and youth on an individual basis, or couples and families.

What to expect during sessions

Each individual is different so their issues are different and each session is different. However, in each session your psychotherapist will encourage you to talk, explore, and delve into your feelings and experiences in a safe and structured way.

Each therapist is different and works in slightly different ways, but overall your therapist will encourage you to find the capacity to improve your understanding of yourself and work towards self acceptance and confidence.

What is the difference between Counselling and Psychotherapy

There is a general understanding that a psychotherapist can work with a wider variety of clients and diagnosis. Psychotherapists can offer more in-depth work when necessary.

The noted difference is seen in the length and depth of training involved and in the quality of the relationship between the client and therapist. PBANZ-registered psychotherapists are trained to Masters level.

Filed Under: Therapy

What happens in an Equine Assisted Psychotherapy session

September 29, 2014 by admin

Horse Picture with Equine Assisted TherapyEquine Assisted Therapy (EAT), also called is about creating an experience, in so much that the client learns about him/herself and others by participating in activities with horses. The activities are created to attend to the client’s goals but still remain open to interpretation. It is based on what the client makes of the activity and as well as the horses’ behaviour that tells the story of the client. It is suggested that Equine Therapy/Horse Therapy can help clients to uncover underlying thoughts and emotions in a matter of minutes, whereas traditional “office-based” therapy can take years.

The focus is on ground work, there is no incorporation of mounting or riding the horses. This is to create a natural way of interacting with the horses and develop more safety for the client. Being on the ground with a horse, rather than sitting on their backs creates a stronger sense of equality and allows the horses to engage with the clients in a more organic manner. By introducing this natural interaction it can encourage the horses to behave as they wish, rather than how they are taught. It allows the horses to respond to the client in a very instinctive way which can be very evocative for the client.

Within Equine Therapy the equine specialist and the psychotherapist/counsellor will organise a predetermined activity which is based on the therapeutic goals developed by the client and their therapist. The activities are designed to be experiential, incorporate the horse as an active facilitator for change and create a parallel to the clients’ lives. Often there are rules attached to the activities. These rules are to prevent the client from using the tools that they commonly use in their relationships, such as touch, bribery, and talking. These tools tend to be abused in their relationships and are often used to gain benefits from the other. These rules are devised to deliberately encourage clients out of their comfort zone and discover new, healthy ways of interacting with others. These rules were created to encourage the clients to try new ways to get their needs met, without taking from the other.

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Filed Under: Equine Assisted Therapy Tagged With: EAT, equine assisted therapy, horse therapy

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